A guy who goes by the name Buchi Laba Laba on twitter, took to his Twitter handle to narrate how his friend loses his girlfriend who his have been dating for 5 year to an Igbo guy based in Russia who just got back to Nigeria.
the guy stated that the friend meet the lady when he was doing his IT.
The guy tweeted and I quote:
I had to Whatapp her Yesterday and she invited me to the wedding and I was so close to insulting her using words like “She loves him but Family pressure”!!
My guy is comfortable and the relest guy I know and it hurts me to see him cry to a girl I toasted for him back then!!
— Buchi Laba Laba 🦋🦋🦋 (@Buchi_smallzy) December 13, 2019
Some People consoled with the guy while some people questioned him, If they had made marriage plans during the span of the 5 years dating.
Did he make his marriage intention known to her? Was he making actual steps in that direction? Tbh after 5 years most women would’ve become weary & looking for alternatives. I feel for ur friend but the lady is not entirely to blame. May he find his peace.
— Nkem4eva (@nwaegbe_nkem) December 13, 2019
No one’s talking about how the dude has been dating the girl he claims to love FOR 5 YEARS with apparently no marriage plans in sight up until the girl felt pressured enough to marry someone else? He should take is L in peace. Unserious fellow
— ~Enigma~ (@AeituaO) December 13, 2019
and another guy also replied “You can’t actually blame the lady, she tried…5 Years is too much out of a lady’s time to be wasted….”
Now we don’t know the full story, so we cant say what exactly went down.
Now is 5 years of dating long,Yes it is. but is it too long to plan your future together?
Another Guy who goes by C.A also replied how his friend girlfriend also got married to someone else:
“My friend updating me with plans to propose to his girl. Suddenly I discovered she just got married to someone else. She deleted my friend’s number so he won’t see her dp and status bt she forgot to delete mine. I was d one who found out and informed my friend. Two months ago.”
checkout some replies below:
This is just sad and wrong. Y’all that play with peoples heart and emotions and waste their time, pretending and eating them only to leave ko ni da fun yin😑
— Ada~beke💦🌺✨ (@blvck_Witch) December 13, 2019
Marriage doesnt just happen overnight. She was obviously a side chick to the groom for a period while I am pretty sure the main guy didn’t know what’s up. Smart move… smart girl.. the irony of it is no matter how long it takes- Girls Like this will always cheat even in marriage
— Olasupo Badmos (@olasupobadmos) December 13, 2019
Nah it’s the truth, it’s not about girls. Next year will make it 6 years, what’s his plan for her? To date for 10 years before he engages her?
— BIBI~ Esq🔱 🇳🇬 (@Blehxxing) December 13, 2019
5 years? If it got to this point, she’d probably hinted at marriage many times and he wasn’t listening.
Not blaming him but he’s comfortable, enough to travel out for a month to chill but couldn’t afford an engagement/introduction? I don’t get it.
— E k e t i (@eketiette) December 13, 2019
Guy whats your opinion on this issue, Is the Lady wrong? or she made the right move? kindly drop your point of view.